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Living on Purpose, means living without resistance!

Can you name the only thing that can stop you?
You say, it could be fear, doubt, frustration, or anger. Any and all of these may be right. Actually, any feeling that is not positive and empowering, is a form of resistance. Resistance is what I want to talk about.

That is the only thing that can stop YOU ! What you resist, persists !!!

When you think of any goal you want to achieve, you may notice a feeling of resistance creeping in. Sometimes a little, sometimes a LOT. Things like: "oh no, I couldn't do that"; "what? I don't think so"! "I have no time- money- expertise"---- fill in the blank, and on and on it goes. This is thanks to ego. Some people spend a lot of time creating problems- or seeing problems everywhere they look. Our ego-mind loves this. Our ego's love to have a 'complicated situation' on our hands to keep busy with.

Resistance stops the flow of our energy. Resistance is the cause of stress. Ever try driving while your brakes are on? When you stop the flow of energy, you stop action.
You could push a little harder on the gas peddle, but as long as the brake is on it is difficult to move. And if you do move- even if you make to your goal, you have just put enormous strain and stress on your engine. This often results in physical and even, mental, breakdown.
When you remove resistance, you are able to glide ahead, moving faster and with less effort.

There are no problems...only resistance.
Take action: stop resisting
Allow your thoughts to flow towards a sense of already experiencing, or having what it is you have set as a goal. How about a little help from your friends? Call upon your friends to support you. Hire a Coach to work with you. Keep positive free flowing ideas afloat. Close the gap on resistance. Take your foot off the brake peddle. In doing so, you will have a new sense of energy filling you up!

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